Sermon Notes: The Seventh Commandment – Faithfulness in Marriage

29 02 2016

“You shall not commit adultery.”

I went to our early service this week, which means these notes are from a different speaker than usual, but still on the seventh commandment!

Marriage was God’s idea right from the start.
“That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.” – Genesis 2 v 24

It wasn’t long before they thought they knew better. We have free will, so it’s no surprise we struggle.

Adultery can be committed mentally as well as physically.
“But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” – Matthew 5 v 28

We live in a very sexualised culture. Not just in things that make sense to be romantic, but absolutely everything!

Our hearts may be given to the Lord, but we’re still susceptible – thoughts go round our head.

“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable – if anything is excellent or praiseworthy – think about such things.” – Philippians 4 v 8

It’s about thought life. Thoughts lead to feelings lead to behaviour. Thoughts work their way outwards.

External influences are important too. Be careful what you put in, because it tends to start to come out.

We should also consider spiritual adultery.

Adultery is by definition an act of unfaithfulness, and so spiritual adultery is an act of unfaithfulness in our relationship with God.

Hosea was told to marry a woman who would be unfaithful, symbolising Israel’s behaviour.

“you have forsaken the love you had at first.” – Revelation 2 v 4b

We will make mistakes, but God is gracious.
“You see the depths of my heart and you love me the same” – Indescribable, by Chris Tomlin

We shouldn’t treat our relationship with God lightly or carelessly. The enemy is looking for any way to trip us up.



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