40 before 40

29 05 2025

Many years ago, around my 29th birthday, I decided to do a 30 before 30 list, and while I did a good chunk of things on there, I didn’t get it all done by a long way, which is fine, but I thought, why not give myself a bit longer for a 40 before 40 list. And yes, some are pinched from the 30 before 30 list!

As I start writing this it’s May 2025, and I think it’ll take a while to come up with 40, but let’s at least start:

  1. Move from my flat to a house – currently in progress, but feels like it could take ’til I’m 40 to go through
  2. Visit New York City – if America is still an OK place to visit
  3. Visit Bletchley Park
  4. Visit Westminster Abbey – either a service or actually pay to go in
  5. Visit the Comedy Store in London – ideally to see comedians I like!
  6. Go and see Austentatious
  7. Visit the Museum of Brands
  8. Go to an opera – I reserve the right to not do this, I don’t want to, just feel like I should, having visited a ballet before my 30th
  9. Go to Wimbledon
  10. Go to a cricket match – Hampshire or England
  11. Go to a rugby match – Bath or England
  12. Go to Silverstone or another Grand Prix
  13. Get a ticket to a show court at Wimbledon via camping or ballot
  14. Eat at Mowgli
  15. Learn the countries of the world and be able to complete the Sporcle quiz – PB 86%, currently around 81%
  16. Learn how to curl my hair
  17. Learn pi to 40dp – currently at 35
  18. Continue to slowly and sustainably lose weight until I hit my target – approx a further stone and a bit
  19. Get back to giving blood
  20. Finish my four seasons of cross stitch – two are done, two to go
  21. If I complete #1, get a photobook done of my years in the flat
  22. Send 40 postcards to people – is this an excuse to buy some cute postcards? maybe…
  23. Stop biting my nails

A couple of these I did before writing the list, but I thought they were significant enough, and achieved after I was 30, to include. And Mowgli was visited since May!
It’s now August 2025 and I think I need to at least get this list up before I complete any more!





Internet highlights – w/c 18th May 2025

24 05 2025
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Friday Five Favourite – Eurovision 2025

23 05 2025

Another year, another Eurovision.

We were treated to an excellent song, teaching us all the things that Switzerland has brought us:

So, to the competition – it was a strong front half of the evening then fizzled a bit, but with one strong one near the end!

Also, need to give a shout out to Ireland who didn’t make the final, but absolutely should have with their song about Laika the space dog!

Of course, I did my annual spreadsheet – please enjoy

And so, here are my top five this year (as highlighted in green above):





Internet highlights – w/c 11 May 2025

17 05 2025
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The Boleyn Inheritance – by Philippa Gregory

13 05 2025

Continuing my read through the Tudor and Plantagenet series of Philippa Gregory books, this year’s read covers wives 4 and 5 of Henry VIII. It’s told by three narrators:

  • Anne of Cleves (wife #4, chosen by Henry as his next wife from a drawing, but then he doesn’t like her when she arrives)
  • Katherine Howard (wife #5, bratty, spoilt, stupid, fifteen year old girl – but Henry, while old enough to nearly be her grandfather, is besotted)
  • Jane Boleyn (sister-in-law of Anne Boleyn, and lady-in-waiting to most of Henry’s wives over the years, also related in some way to Katherine Howard)

I really liked Anne, I felt sorry for her, she was just in an awful situation. Katherine, as you may have gathered from my description above, was just irritating. Jane, comes across as likeable, but is so tied up in the Boleyn/Howard world. And yes, of course, loads of people are related to each other.

That’s one thing this book really lacked, that others of hers have had, and that’s a family tree, to help understand how various families are related, and within the families too, I kept wanting to flick back to check things, but there was nowhere to flick back to. The end of the book says there’s one on the website, but it doesn’t seem to be there anymore sadly, plus what good is telling me at the end?!

By this stage Henry is around 50 years old and has a permanent infection in his leg leaving him in constant pain, but he is accruing more and more power to do whatever he wants, however he wants, to change laws at whim, etc. One thing that struck me was how Trumpian some of Henry’s rants sounded, for example: “No-one could beat me, Ever. Not one knight. I was the greatest jouster in England, perhaps in the world. I was unbeatable and I could ride all day and dance all night, and be up the next day at dawn to go hunting. […] There was none like me! I was the greatest knight since those of the round table! I was a legend.” Maybe it was true, maybe it wasn’t, but you could hear Trump saying it couldn’t you? That said, Katherine makes similarly arrogant comments about her looks throughout, and constantly lists how many dresses and jewels she has – maybe they weren’t that dissimilar in some ways.

While reading this, I heard that Philippa Gregory is publishing another book called the Boleyn Traitor, which I understand will be fully about Jane, but be set before this one, so I might have to jump backwards a step next year!





Internet highlights – w/c 4 May 2025

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Internet highlights – w/c 27th April 2025

3 05 2025
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Internet highlights – f/c 13th April 2025

26 04 2025
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The Official History of Britain: Our story in numbers as told by the Office for National Statistics – by Boris Starling

19 04 2025

This book was so much fun – I know you don’t get that from the title, in fact, it sounds *incredibly* dry, but I assure you, it’s a fun read! All sorts of cynical comments and random tangents make it a really easy read, all while being really interesting! There were jokes at the expense of Tottenham fans and the population of East Anglia, as well as random bits of trivia and at times, just following his train of thought wherever it went!

The book is split into 5 sections:

  • The first three look at how things have changed over the last 200 years that regular censuses have been taken (Who we are, what we do, where we are)
  • The fourth is a focus on the 1921 census, which was just after the Spanish Flu, and given this was written in 2020 in the depths of the pandemic, a lot of comparisons are drawn.
  • And then finally an imaginative look ahead to what the 2121 census might look like, both in results, and how it’s achieved.

I really wanted to give this 5 stars, but there were just a few mistakes that meant I couldn’t do that: Categories mislabeled on a graph key, black and white diagrams with shades of grey too similar to decipher, and tables which didn’t show units, making them confusing to interpret. as well as one instance of talking about a value decreasing and then showing it increasing….. other than that, brilliant!

I’d be really interested in reading a re-issue of this now that we’re out of COVID (for the most part), with a bonus chapter or two looking at how it affected things as a lot was made of what effect it might have, but at the time of writing, it was too soon to tell.

As it is, it was bookended with this quote from Lord Kelvin: “If you cannot measure it, you cannot improve it”





Internet highlights – w/c 6th April 2025

12 04 2025
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